Groom-Inspired Wedding Ideas

Your wedding planning journey is such a fun season of life! As experienced wedding planners, we know that today weddings are all about personalized details that reflect the couple’s unique personalities, and grooms deserve just as much room to shine. Whether your groom is into sports, cigars, or is a big foodie, we've got some fresh, groom-inspired wedding ideas to help make his day just as special as hers. Let’s dive in!

Groom’s Cake/Dessert

The groom's cake is a fun and southern tradition that allows the groom’s personality to take center stage. Think of it as his opportunity to have a little fun with the dessert table! Whether it’s the colors of his favorite sports team, hobby, or an alternative dessert, the groom's cake (or dessert) is a great way to showcase his interests and make the day feel more personalized. The groom’s cake pictured below was a replica of one of our groom’s old college coolers displayed with his favorite beer!

Photographer: Jake Barrentine

Cigar Bar

If your groom is a cigar lover, a cigar bar is an awesome way to add a bit of class and sophistication to the reception. Set up a designated space where guests can grab a cigar, light up, and relax with a drink. Add a vintage touch with some custom matchbooks or engraved lighters as keepsakes. It’s the perfect way for the men to have a little fun while still keeping it elegant.

Photographer: Haley Birdsey

Signature Drink

What’s a wedding without drinks? Creating a signature drink for the groom (or even a pair of drinks for both of you) is a fun way to highlight his favorite flavors and give the bar a personal touch. Whether it’s a classic cocktail with a fun name, or something completely unique to his taste, your guests will love toasting to the happy couple with a drink that represents your personalities.

Photographer: Jordan & Alaina

Custom Suit

The groom deserves to look just as sharp as the bride! A custom suit or tailored tuxedo will make him feel like a million bucks on his big day. Go for a classic look with a modern twist, or add some personal touches like a custom monogram on the cufflinks or inside the jacket. Whether he’s going for a traditional suit or something a little more adventurous, the right fit will help him stand out and feel confident.

Photographer: Dani Keane

Late-Night Snack Bar

After hours of dancing, your guests are going to work up an appetite. Why not have a late-night snack bar filled with all his (and your) favorite treats? Think of classic comfort food like pizza, sliders, or even Taco Bell. It's a fun way to add a little extra excitement to the reception while making sure your guests are well-fed after all the partying.

Photographer: Alex Kelly

Personalized Accessories

The little touches matter, so don't forget to consider personalized accessories for the groom. From cufflinks with his initials to a custom tie or belt buckle, these accessories can make his look feel extra special. Don’t forget the shoes, custom shoes or socks with a fun message or pattern can add personality and flair to his wedding day outfit.

Photographer: Linden Bloom

Sport/Hobby-Inspired Details

Does the groom have a favorite sport or hobby? Incorporate it into the wedding day with themed details! For a golf lover, think about a mini putting green for guests to enjoy during cocktail hour. If he's into music, why not have a live musician play his favorite instrument during cocktail hour? Whether it’s a favorite team, hobby, or passion, adding subtle touches that reflect his interests will make the day feel even more personal.

Photographer: Marlee Gentry

While wedding planning may feel overwhelming at times, remember that it's your special day as a couple! Embrace the groom’s personality and allow him to be part of the planning process. From custom details to fun touches, these groom-inspired wedding ideas will ensure he feels celebrated, and your wedding will be one to remember for both of you.

Need help bringing all these ideas to life? Consider hiring a wedding planner or coordinator to handle all the details so you can focus on enjoying the process. At Before the Vows, we specialize in creating personalized wedding experiences that reflect both of your unique styles. Let's make your wedding day unforgettable!